I think it is difficult to judge people thru the media. I see him as a hard working, flawed NFL player that avoids the publicity. I would probably be similar to that is I was a public figure.The only think that matters to me is his desire to win and keep his mistakes to a minimum. As long as he is a Bear I will root for him. He wife is as you stated, and remember everybody has different paths that make them happy. If there happy ,good for them. It about family, happiness and having a good life, I think he probably has to this point and wish everybody happiness. His wife may not be my cup of tea, but then she doesnt have to be.